This has been a year like no other in recent history. The national pandemic shutdown began on March 13th, and I will not forget that because it was my wife’s birthday and we were planning to go out to eat to celebrate and our plans changed. What we figured was only going to be a change of plans and lifestyle for a couple of weeks, turned into months and is now approaching a year already. Vacations were forced to be changed or canceled. Weddings were now private celebrations. Friends and family could not be visited in the hospital and people were alone at very difficult times. Funerals were sadly small and at the graveside if anything at all. No more dining out, no more movie theaters, no more parties, no more high school football and basketball, professional and college sports teams are playing shortened schedules, stadiums are empty with the exception of cardboard cutouts, and now everyone is wearing a mask (not the cardboard cutouts). Many kids are not in school but rather sitting in front of a computer screen trying to be educated; try that with 20 kindergarten students. We knew this was a serious matter when Easter Services were canceled and churches were closed and yet, it continues. Thanksgiving gatherings were minimal and not the same, and now many are looking at Christmas apart from family and alone. What is happening? How are businesses going to survive? Sadly, many are not. How do people keep their sanity? Sadly, many are not. How do we as Christians respond? Does God have a plan for this? Does He give us directions in His Word for dealing with this kind of thing?
God has designed us as human beings to not be alone. When He created Adam in the perfect Garden of Eden without sin, He said that there was something missing. He said that it was not good for man to be alone so He gave him Eve. (Genesis 2:18) God’s design is for us human beings, to do life together. After all, we were created in the image of God because God desired to be with us, and that has never changed. (Genesis 1:26) In the New Testament, God gave us the local church to do life together and to prevent us from being alone. He has designed it to be a living body of believers to care for and love one another. There is a reason for that; it is not good for us to be alone. Yet, this pandemic is prohibiting us from being together, so what do we do? Some genuinely cannot be around other people for fear of getting sick and I completely understand that. On the other hand there are some who do not go to their church because of the pandemic, and yet they will go to the grocery store or Walmart to get “what they need.” That one I do not understand. Do we fully understand and grasp how important the church is to our well-being? This local body of believers that you have joined yourself to and made a commitment to, was established by God for your own good, the good of other believers, and most importantly, the glory of God Himself. This pandemic has hit the local church pretty hard in that gatherings have a limit on the number of people who can attend if they are allowed to meet at all. Why is this happening? Why is God allowing this to happen? Is God up to something? You bet He is! I believe that this pandemic may very well be a test for the Church; that God just might be doing a purge of sorts.
There are all kinds of questions that come to mind. Questions like “how will the local church survive?” and “What are we to do as a local church?” The local church was established for the benefit of the saints; for their growth and care and to provide a place where they might use their gifts, but if we cannot meet, how do we do that? I was thinking about the early church as described in the book of Acts. It was vibrant and growing extremely fast. God was adding to the Church daily and there was a need for care and teaching. They did not have nice buildings and sound systems or video and media like we do today. That did not keep them from meeting together, they met in homes. They had the threat of losing their lives if they met together, just like some churches today. They continued to care for each other in a very intimate way. In some ways we have lost that in the church today. There are churches that have become so big that the people do not even know each other let alone the pastor does not know the people under his care. God is using those churches in special ways, but it is not uncommon for people to slip through the cracks, and that is not how God designed His church. NWBC does not have that problem. We know most everyone who attends and there are many relationships that have developed and continue to develop, but we have not arrived. How are we, as a congregation, to “do church” during this pandemic? What can we do when we are not able to meet together? What happens when we are not together? Check out this story that I came across.
A member of the church, who previously had been attending services regularly, stopped going. After a few weeks, the pastor decided to visit him. It was a chilly evening. The pastor found the man at home alone, sitting before a blazing fire. Guessing the reason for his pastor’s visit, the man welcomed him, led him to a comfortable chair near the fireplace and waited. The pastor made himself at home but said nothing. In the grave silence, he contemplated the dance of the flames around the burning logs. After some minutes, the pastor took the fire tongs, carefully picked up a brightly burning ember and placed it to one side of the hearth all alone then he sat back in his chair, still silent. The host watched all this in quiet contemplation. As the one lone ember’s flame flickered and diminished, there was a momentary glow and then its fire was no more. Soon it was cold and dead. Not a word had been spoken since the initial greeting.The pastor glanced at his watch and realized it was time to leave. He slowly stood up, picked up the cold, dead ember and placed it back in the middle of the fire. Immediately it began to glow, once more with the light and warmth of the burning coals around it. As the pastor reached the door to leave, his host said with his voice cracking, “Thank you so much for your visit and especially for the fiery sermon. I’ll see you Sunday.”
Does that bring anyone to mind? Is there someone among us who just might be flickering as they seem to slowly fall away from their church family? You have a church directory or you have a picture in your mind of where people sit and their seat has been empty. You probably do have at least one person in mind, so what do you do? We are reminded over and over again of our responsibility to care for one another, bear with one another, pray for one another, and love one another. We have telephones, email, texts, and even the good old post office, where if we want to do so, we can drop someone a note and let them know that you care. There are seniors, even in our church, whose phone does not even ring once in a day and whose mailboxes are empty. Everyone is busy and yet God gave them to our church to love them and care for them. Maybe you are an ember who has chosen to not be involved in the church that God has given to you and you are in danger of flaming out. Don’t let that happen. You need to be proactive for your own good, for the good of your family, for the good of your church family, and most importantly for the glory of God.
So what do we do? Not everyone is able to meet with us because of this pandemic and their fear and genuine concern of getting sick, and I fully understand that. I really do. If that is you, what you can do is first of all pray for one another. Ask God to put someone on your heart and reach out to them. Pray for them. People often say to me “the least I can do is pray” and it makes me cringe. That is the very BEST THING that you can do! Pray for one another! Write notes of encouragement and make some phone calls. Talk about what God is teaching you during this time of being apart, but genuinely pray for one another.
There are also some of you who have decided that meeting with your local church is optional and only necessary when convenient. You are wrong! How is that benefiting you? How is that benefiting your family? How is that benefiting your church family? How is that glorifying God? Please do not allow yourself to flame out.
Then there are those of you who miss the way things used to be. I do too, but I have to believe that God is up to something, so we need to look for His hand in all that is going on around us. We need to ask Him how we can be His hands and His feet to the people that He has put into our lives and then we need to “one another.” You are going to be limited in some ways as to what you are able to do, but the one thing that will never be inhibited is the opportunity for you to pray for one another. Let’s commit to doing that and I believe that God will provide for us opportunities to do more for the good of others and the glory of God. Let’s do our best to make sure that no on is doing Christmas apart. I look forward to seeing what God might do with a people who are committed to what He directs and desires.
Merry Christmas everyone. May each of you reflect the glory of God to those who you are with this Christmas.
Jerry